Selective Mutism: Symptoms, Risks Factors, and Treatment
What Is Selective Mutism?
Selective mutism is an anxiety disorder that appears in childhood. Children with this condition face a regular struggle to speak in particular situations, despite being capable of speaking in other situations. Children suffering from this condition are comfortable speaking in familiar situations, such as at home, but become reluctant to speak in public or in unfamiliar situations.
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Understand selective mutism with an example: A child who is very talkative at home but continuously stays quiet at school. Or when with unfamiliar people around, despite wanting to participate in social gatherings or activities, a child becomes anxious, which makes them feel unable to speak.
Symptoms of Selective Mutism in Children
The most commonly seen symptoms of selective mutism in children may include:
Child Refuses to Speak
The basic symptom of selective mutism is the continual refusal to speak in particular situations, such as school settings, public places, and social gatherings. Children may feel anxious when trying to communicate. They instead use nonverbal communication.
Children Struggling in School
Selective mutism can impact school performance, including participation in school events, class discussions, presentations, and academic achievement. Children may avoid any participation, which may lead to isolation and affect their confidence.
Feeling Nervous Around Others
Children with selective mutism face social anxiety in social situations (anxiety related to social situations), specifically in situations where communication is needed. They avoid eye contact and withdraw from gatherings.
When Talking Becomes a Challenge
Children with selective mutism face trouble initiating speaking, and exhibit nonverbal communication such as pointing, nodding, and gestures. For expressing themselves, they may use written communication and drawing. They face difficulty while initiating or answering any conversations.
Feeling Nervous about Talking
Children feel Nervousness and excessive anxiety can occur in this condition when it comes to speaking. They feel fear of being judged and fear of facing embarrassment in social situations, leading them to avoid verbal conversations.
Feeling Isolated in Social Settings
Due to having difficulty speaking in social situations, children feel social isolation in conditions such as forming friendships and interacting with others. This difficulty in speaking in social situations may lead to a lack of social development and low self-esteem.
It is necessary to note that the signs can manifest differently and may vary based on social situations. These signs can occur with other conditions such as anxiety disorder, social anxiety, and generalized anxiety disorder.
Risk Factors of Selective Mutism
The development of selective mutism is influenced by various factors. Most common factors may include:
Temperamental Influences
Temperamental characteristics may increase the risk of developing selective mutism in children. Naturally shy children may be more likely to develop social anxiety and selective mutism.
Family Influences
Children with a family history of selective mutism or anxiety disorders may be more likely to develop it.
Environmental Influences
Factors such as facing traumatic events, bullying, a stressful environment, neglect, abuse, and major adverse life changes can contribute to the risk of developing selective mutism.
Language and Speech Problems
Children with language and speech problems may feel anxious in social situations. They also get uncomfortable when engaging in communication. These problems may contribute to enhancing the risk of developing selective mutism.
Early recognition of the signs and contributing factors can help in the timely management of selective mutism. Seeking a mental health professional's help is necessary for the effective management of selective mutism.
Note: Not all of these risk factors can lead to the development of selective mutism, but they may increase the risk of developing Selective mutism (SM).
Treatment and Supporting Children with Selective Mutism
Supporting children with selective mutism with multiple strategies to help diminish anxiety and fear of speaking in particular situations. Mental health professionals can utilize various effective strategies to enhance overall functioning in social situations.
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy
Cognitive behavioral therapy is an effective therapeutic approach that helps in modifying negative thoughts, which are associated with anxiety-provoking situations. Social skills training can be helpful in enhancing communication skills and managing challenging social situations.
Gradual Exposure
The gradual exposure is a very effective technique, where a child is gradually exposed to anxiety and fear-provoking situations in a safe and controlled environment. The aim of exposure is to help children speak in a small group of familiar people and gradually to larger social settings.
Speech Therapy
Speech therapy is a helpful approach that improves speech and language skills and enhances verbal communication. A speech therapist can help by utilizing several techniques, such as shaping and reinforcement, to enhance a child's confidence in speaking in social situations.
Parental Support in Helping Children
Parental support is very crucial in supporting children with selective mutism. Parental support can enhance encouragement, confidence, and reinforcement, helping improve a child's communication skills. Parents can support their child at home by practicing speaking skills and understanding the child's needs according to situations.
Seeking Professional Help
It is necessary to consult with mental health professionals for the treatment of selective mutism.
Final Thoughts
Selective mutism is a condition in which children struggle to speak in particular situations. A diagnosis can be made by mental health professionals. Early identification and intervention are key to helping children with selective mutism. Various effective techniques by mental health professionals, such as CBT, exposure techniques, speech therapy, and parental support, help children improve communication skills and social functioning.
